Judging someone without knowing anything about a person is a crime but judging someone even after knowing a person is a sin. One should not judge and should not care about being judged by anyone. Here is how to avoid it.
Here are Tips to avoid judging other people.
Try talking to them. The simplest way to stop judging the person next to you is to go and talk to the person, see if has any stories to tell and you never know, you might even find a friend in him. Socialize as much as you can.
Be more empathetic. Put yourself in their shoes and see for yourself what it is like to be them. Understand the reason behind why they are like that and why they do the things that they do. Try and see the world through their eyes.
Read more. The more you read, the better the human being you become. Read about the psychology of people to understand their behavioral patterns and reasoning. Once you understand the root cause of things, you will stop judging.
Be more level-headed. Be calm in every situation so that you assess the situation well and can stop yourself from judging the other person. In the heat of the moment, we might misjudge or mistake people for what they are not.
Do not bother about other people. The best way to stop judging other people is to not care about what they are doing or what they have been up to. When you do not put their nose in their matters, everything gets easy.
Have an open mind. You’ll stop judging anyone the day you open your mind to the world. You will understand that however wrong that person might be, he has a reason for doing it and it is completely justified in his world, and you have no right to judge.
Be woke. Be in touch with what has been going on in the world, any new developments, the current affairs and do not let the time pass you by. Do not get offended easily but also do not take everything lightly. Stay at par with the changing times.
Be in touch with current affairs. When you follow current affairs and are well informed, you begin to see things for what they really are and judge a little less. When there is so much going on in the world, you should let the people around you be.
Have more sympathy. Be sympathetic towards the people who have made a mistake or are in a bad phase in their lives. Instead of judging them and blaming them for who they are, empathize with them and let them know that you understand.
Everyone has a story. Understand that no matter who the person is, what the age, everyone has a story that they want to talk about. Sadly, no one wants to listen to those amazing stories but they just want to judge, do not be that person.
Put yourself in their shoes. Before judging them with a blind eye, put yourself in the exact situation that they are in, try and feel the struggles and pain that they have to endure, and then, you are allowed to even utter a word about them.
Be more positive. Be more positive around the people that you spend your time with and have positive thoughts. People with cynical brains tend to judge other people carelessly but when your brain is filled with happy thoughts, there is no room for it.
Try to smile more. The more you smile, the better the world will get. A smile is the most powerful weapon in your arsenal and when you smile, you make someone’s day a bit better. The next time you feel like judging someone, just smile at them.
Socialize more. Talk to more people, have more of a get-together, and socialize with as many people as you can. When you talk to a number of people, you’ll be fascinated by their stories and you would dare not judge anyone else again.
Talk to different people. Talk to different kinds of people. People of different cultures, creeds, and caste, the more you engage with them, the more you’ll grow and the less you would want to judge any other human being again.
Engage in more grouped activities. Group activities like parties, functions, seminars, and workshops, where a lot of people come together and share their views and thoughts will truly help you grow as a person and you would not want to be judgmental anymore.
Play a team sport. Playing a team sport teaches you several things. From trusting and believing in each other to respecting each other’s opinions, decisions, and personal space. You need to get into some sort of team sport to stop judging someone else.
Go out more. Go out more to different cafes, restaurants, and even bars to observe people when they are having fun and are happy. Talk to strangers, talk to them about their experiences and you would be shocked to see how it turns out.
Use social media well. Use social media the right way. Social media was initially created as a platform for people to come together and not just lie about themselves like today. Meet new people, talk to them and you’ll find out how wrong you were to judge them at the first glance.
Be kind-hearted. There is no greater quality on Earth than to have a kind heart. When you treat everyone with kindness, you receive the biggest blessing that one can get but when you judge someone needlessly, it is no lesser than a sin.
Be willing to be a help. Be ready to help someone whenever you notice that he or she needs it. The gratitude that they will show you after you have helped them will bring you a million times more joy than standing on the side and judging them.
Try to be less observant. This one might work for someone who loves to judge everyone. When you observe everything and everyone, you cannot stop yourself from judging. Try and observe only the important things to stay away from judging needlessly.
Keep your curiosity in check. It is only human to be curious but when you go overboard with your curiosity and hinder someone’s private space, it is called judging and it causes a lot of damage. Monitor your curiosity well.
Do not assume. Do not assume anything about a person just by looking at them. Their looks do not define what kind of a person they are. You need to talk to them, know them, be with them to truly know who they are on the inside.
Stop overthinking. Do not burden yourself by forcing your brain to think about someone with whom you will probably never talk or even spend some time. Stop your brain from wandering off into the abyss and keep it to yourself.
Be a friend. Instead of being a judge, try to be a friend to them. Instead of just standing at a distance and giving them a judgmental look, try walking up to them and say hi sometimes. It is going to change your life forever, and you will make a lot of new friends.
Be more understanding. Be more understanding of the situation, of the time, and especially of the consequences. It is very easy to judge someone from a look but it is the most difficult thing to actually try and understand who they are.
Think about your upbringing. Think about the kind of upbringing that you have had and the morals that you have grown up with. Coming from a place of privilege, you have no right to judge anyone who might not have the same life as you.
Be grateful. Be grateful for the kind of people that you have in your life, be grateful for all the things that you have in your life, and more importantly, be grateful that you are healthy. Start being grateful instead of judging people around.
Acknowledge your privilege. Acknowledge that you come from a place of privilege and that you have not had such experiences as them. You might even have not seen as much of the world as them so there is no reason for you to judge anyone.
Travel more. Start traveling to different parts of the world, get introduced to different cultures, and meet a lot of new people to truly know and understand what it means to be human and why you should not even think about judging anyone.
Talk to strangers. Talking to strangers is a great way to bust your habit of judging. Look at a stranger, form an opinion of him in your head and then go and talk to them. You’ll not be able to believe how stupid you were with your opinion of that person.
Stop caring unnecessarily. You don’t have to care about every other person that you see and be concerned to stop and judge that person. Instead, concern yourself only with the things that are truly important to you.
Stay focused on your work. Stay focused on what you are doing right now and keep all these useless thoughts away. Paying a hundred percent focus on your work and judging someone would seem like a total waste to you and you would have to stop it.
Look for small things to appreciate. Instead of looking for faults in them and judging them. Look for good qualities in them. Look for things in them that you can appreciate and acknowledge. Be more optimistic about them.
Look for a sign. Look for a sign that the universe might be sending to you. It could be anything from a little spark or a leaf flowing by to tell you to actually go and greet that person instead of just standing and judging there.
Tell yourself that they have a reason. Constantly tell yourself that whatever they are doing or saying, no matter how wrong or right it is, they have a reason for it and that everything is justified in their world. Do not keep looking for faults or counters.
Understand your purpose. Understand your purpose in the place that you are. If you are in a library, your purpose is to read books, if you are at a restaurant, your purpose there is to eat, stick to your purpose and you would not want to judge anyone.
Question your presence. Ask a question to yourself about what you are really doing in that place and why is it that you are there. If you feel like you do not have a great answer, there is no reason for you to stay there and keep judging other people.
Be very direct. Be very direct in your approach towards people. If you do not like something or someone, be very straightforward about it instead of standing in a corner, thinking about it, and judging the other person.
Do not over imagine. Do not imagine the things that are never going to happen. When we start judging someone, we allow our brain to run wild and show us the things that we want to see even if it has zero practicality, stop your imagination right there.
Stop being materialistic. If you are materialistic, you will automatically start judging people by the clothes that they wear, the shoes that they walk in, or even the gadgets that they use. Humans will turn into brands for you and that’s something you would not want to happen.
Looks can be deceiving. Understand that the person you are looking at has way more to offer than what meets the eye. Do not ever make the mistake of judging a book by its cover as looks can be deceiving. Find out for yourself by talking to them.
Give the person time. Allow yourself to spend some time with the person, get to know them better, and then decide whether the person is wrong or right. You cannot judge a person in an instant. Let it be a gradual process rather than a one-time quick thing.
Notice the right things. Notice the things about them that really matter. Instead of noticing the clothes on their body, notice their body language. Instead of noticing the words that they use, notice their tone and you will have all the answers that you are looking for.
Focus more on your happiness. There is nothing else in this entire world that matters more than your happiness. Focus more on what makes you happy rather than wasting your time and energy over judging someone who probably does not even know that you exist.
Be inner protected. Do not let anything from the outside affect you as a person. Do not get influenced easily and do not fall into the habit of judging other people. Be inner protected and do not be outer guided, plant yourself like a tree.
Always have good things to say. When you say things that have a positive impact on people and make them happy, there is no way that you would be able to judge them once they throw you off with a genuine smile. Be more appreciative.
Complaint less. Life will never be perfect and there will always be things that you would find to be disturbing. Well, instead of complaining and cribbing about it all the time, why don’t you do something about it yourself.
Be satisfied. Be satisfied with what you have right now so that god forbid, when you lose something, you will be able to get back up. Learn to be happy with what you have and don’t go after all the things in the world and start judging everyone.
Have clarity of thought. When you have enough clarity of thought in life, you start looking at things in a more mature way. You understand people better, you understand your purpose and you stop judging others for no reason at all.
Listen to their story. Being a great listener is what will set you apart from everyone. In a world, where everyone wants to talk all the time, be someone who will stop and listen. If you listen well enough, you will have all the right reasons to judge.
Concentrate on your motivation. Focus more on the things that motivate you to reach higher in life. Concentrate more on the things that push you to be a better person in life so that the next time you stop judging someone, you would know it is not right.
Be more accepting. Accept people for who they really are not who you think them to be. There is enough hate in the world already, you should not be the one to spread it even further, start accepting and loving people for who they are at heart, what they want to become.
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